The secret of great relationships

What one simple thing can you do to make a big difference in your relationships?

There is a story of a married woman who was very frustrated about her relationship with her husband.  She felt that the husband was not helping her in the home, was unresponsive to her conversations, and generally found fault with everything that he did.

The marriage counselor told her to try one thing:   To thank the husband for something that he did for the day, and not to expect any response from him.   So, she went home and tried to notice one good thing  that her husband did.   Sure enough, she noticed that he bought some groceries home.   She said, “Thank you for buying these items today”.    The next day, she said, “Thank you for preparing my coffee.”   She did this for the next few days, saying thanks to her husband for a chore or a deed, and not expecting anything in return.

The husband was at first surprised about the change of behavior but noticed increasingly that she was thanking him, more than once a day.   After a few weeks,   he said to her one day,  “Thanks for the supper – it was good.”    From this time on, he started thanking her for the little things that she did.

When the marriage counselor checked with the woman after a few weeks, the woman said that their relationship was going great and that she was lucky to have a caring and thoughtful husband.

So what changed?

Just one simple word but it worked wonders ~

Here is a wonderful video about the secret of great relationships:  The 100/0 Principle from Simple Truths:

Simple Truths – We Hope You Enjoyed the movie!.

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About Grace

I am striving to improve my writing style and craft.
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